10: breaking the rules

What else can I say?  You’ve done it all.

Hopefully, with the Introduction to Sewing and Intermediate Sewing Techniques courses, you’ll feel like the master of that sewing machine.  If it ever starts giving you trouble… you know where the power switch is.  Yes, that’s a threat!

And maybe I’ve mislead you to think that this is a technical lesson, when in reality, it’s more of a motivational lesson.  See, once you have the skills, you’re the boss.  Nobody else can tell you exactly how to do something.  Truthfully, there are more ways than the ones I’ve presented in these e-courses for doing each technique.  From now on, it’s okay to break the “rules” a little.  It’s okay to venture away from an exact pattern, or to try to make a pattern of your own.

Are you perfect?  Probably not.  At least I know that I still make errors, almost daily.  A lot of times, those mistakes will actually improve your end product, because it will let you think creatively. Problem solve.  Each of these, for example, are projects that had a different vision at first, then ended up BETTER after I put a little sweat into it.

This dress had a HUGE neckline. It just slipped off of my daughter’s shoulders. With a simple twist at the top, I found that made the neckline smaller and added a fun shape to the dress.
I bought fabric to make a basic apron, but the remnant I had wasn’t big enough. Determined to make it work (for several days) I slanted the fabric slightly and found that I could utilize the fabric area better if the apron was asymmetrical.
The first prototype I made for the Scrapped Fox was kind of a disaster. Rather than having two slight and angled pieces of fur to emphasize a pointed nose, I had one thick piece that came straight across. My husband sweetly pointed out that it looked like a thong, and I reworked it. I love the way the fox is today, but if nobody had said anything, I might have put up a thong face for the blogging world to laugh at.

And other times a fail is just a plain fail.  So, it doesn’t work.  Big deal.  Lesson learned and you move on.

Now, as for the quality of the work you put out, that might just depend on what it’s use is.  My rule of thumb is simply this:

If it’s for me or my kids, I take short cuts, and only focus on what will be seen.

If it’s for someone else, I take time, and make sure that everything is done right, inside and out.

Shows you what an awesome mom I am.  But can you tell?

Hopefully not.  This little theory has saved me hours and hours of my life.  It lets me spend more time with my kids, and more time for dinner prep- which I need desperately.  And, in cutting corners on my own projects, I open up a few more minutes here and there to ensure quality when I’m sewing for someone else.

Man, someone should write one of these to encourage me in the kitchen.  I need it.

I think I’m procrastinating finishing this e-course, and I don’t really know why.  I’m one of those annoying people who dances around hanging up the phone, because I don’t know how to abruptly say goodbye.  I guess all I really need to say is that sewing will change your life.  It’s a stress reliever (once it’s no longer a stress inducer), and it’s a skill of self-reliance.  Keep sewing…

2 thoughts on “10: breaking the rules

  1. Stacie, you are simply awesome! thanks so much

  2. Thank you for writing such a thorough and informative lessons on sewing. I have been searching for something to help me organize my thoughts as I begin to teach sewing to kids and adults. These lessons have done just that.
    Lisa

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